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Family First: How To Help Your Kids Cope With Divorce

It is never easy to end a relationship. When you have kids, it can be even harder to end a relationship knowing how hard it will be on them. However, there are ways that you can help your children cope with the fact that mom and dad aren’t going to be living together anymore.

Family First: How To Help Your Kids Cope With DivorceLet the Children Know That They Aren’t What Caused It

Your children should be told over and over again that they are not the reason why the divorce happened. Many times, children will feel as if they did something wrong and that is why mom and dad are fighting so much. You should tell your kids everyday that both parents love them and that they had nothing to do with the problems that the adults are having.

Be Civil Around the Children

According to a family law attorney, it is important that you act in a civil manner around your children. This will make it easier for your kids because they know that mom and dad still get along and will still be a part of their lives. In some cases, parents try to use their children as pawns in a divorce. This is unhealthy for the people going through the divorce as well as for the children. Even if two parents don’t get along, it is best for the children to put on a brave face whenever everyone is together.

Always Be Available to Talk

Children may need a lot of love and assurance during a divorce. Therefore, you need to be there for your kids whenever they want to talk. If your child or children are taking a divorce especially hard, a professional therapist may need to see the child to help your son or daughter get through the tough times.

Make Time for Your Kids

After a divorce, it may seem like a good idea to get out of your child’s life and let your former family cope with what is going on without you. However, this is a tragic mistake. Your kids still want and need both parents in their lives. Whether the mother or the father is the noncustodial parent, that parent still needs to be there to go out to dinner or see a movie to keep that bond between parent and child strong.

Divorce is not something that you ever want to experience. However, those who are not happy together may be better off divorcing as opposed to putting on a charade for the kids.

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Tim Esterdahl

Tim Esterdahl is the editor of IFCS blog. He is a married father of three and enjoys golf in his spare time.
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