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Family Time: 5 Steps to Being There for Your Elderly Family Members

It can be hard to understand how age affects a loved one. Time tries to rob beautiful things like memories and independence. The following are five steps to take to help your aging loved one when he or she needs it the most.

Try to Understand

The first step to take is to figure out your loved one’s needs. What you want to do is create a list to help you keep track of these needs. You want to pay attention to medication, disabilities, and the everyday tasks that your loved one has trouble with. This list should make it easier to figure out your next steps.

Figure out Resources

As much as you may want to help, this depends on the resources you have available. Sure, your head may be in the right place, but your budget needs to be paid attention, too. You want to provide care as long as you can, so paying attention to this aspect is important. Try to take everything into account, from your loved one’s savings to your disposable income.

Create a Network

You are going to need help taking care of your loved one. It would be a good idea to round up all your family members and friends of the family to get some help. Try to assign duties that each person will be responsible for, which should help lift some of the weight off of your shoulders. Taking care of an elderly loved one can be quite taxing, so do not overlook this step.

Communication Is Vital

It is important that you talk to your loved one about your plans. This person needs to be on board with some of these decisions because they are going to affect him or her. Involving your loved one in the process should make any transition a little easier, and this shows that you respect him or her, which is very important at this time.

Get Professional Help

The next thing you want to consider is finding a way to get professional help as well. There are a number of options here like a senior home facility, but the most sought after is a senior retirement community that specializes in dementia care. These areas have all the perks of independent living alongside professional supervision to make living a little nicer. A community like this ensures that your loved one is safe and gives you peace of mind.

As mentioned before, make sure you talk to your loved one about any major decisions before making them. Hopefully, these steps make things easier and show you how to be there for the person you care about. Be patient. Taking these steps is not easy, but you can do it.

Tim Esterdahl

Tim Esterdahl is the editor of IFCS blog. He is a married father of three and enjoys golf in his spare time.
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