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Mom Vs Dad: How to Prepare for the Birth of Your First Child

There are few moments in life as special as the birth of a first child. However, it can be overwhelming to prepare for something that you have never gone through before. Whether you are the mother or the father, there are many things that you need to do to make sure that you are ready to bring a new life into the world.

What Mom Needs to Prepare For

Mothers should be getting their minds and bodies ready for the process of giving birth. Taking vitamins, going to birthing classes and communicating regularly with your doctor are all steps that can increase the odds of giving birth to a healthy baby. Moms that are planning home births should coordinate the event with their doctor or other medical professionals.

What Dads Need to Prepare For

Throughout the pregnancy and during the labor process, the father’s role is to support the mother in any way that he can. This may mean getting food late at night, packing an overnight bag or sacrificing his hand while the baby is being born. After the birth, dads should do whatever is necessary around the house or helping the mother cope both physically and mentally from the experience.

What Both Parents Should Be Ready For

Both parents should be involved in the process of deciding where the baby will sleep, what type of child safety seat to buy and when it should be vaccinated. Decisions related to who goes to work and who stays home should also be made jointly by both parents. While birth injuries are relatively rare, mom and dad should know that they can turn to a personal injury attorney who deals if their child is hurt while being delivered.

Make Sure the Animals Are Prepared

If there are animals in the household, it is important that they are prepared for a tiny human to move in. In some cases, a cat or dog will act as a protective guardian or playmate. However, the family pet may also act out or see the baby as a threat to its territory. In the event that a pet cannot interact well with the child, it may need to be removed from the home.

Having a child means a big lifestyle change for both the mother and the father. While parenting is often seen as a fun and rewarding experience, it also comes with a lot of responsibility. Therefore, you need to start preparing for the arrival of your first child as soon as you know that it is coming.

Tim Esterdahl

Tim Esterdahl is the editor of IFCS blog. He is a married father of three and enjoys golf in his spare time.

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