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Raising a Healthy Child: 4 Ways to Improve Your Child’s Self-Esteem

Being a parent is a full time job, which is why parents do their best to learn as much as possible when it comes to raising their kids. One of the most important factors of a child’s development is their self-esteem, which most kids develop early. The following are four ways to improve your child’s self-esteem, just in case this is necessary.

Try a Team

Many parents want their child to join a sports team, which could be great for a child’s self-esteem but only if your child likes sports. What you really want to do is focus on letting your child get involved in a group activity that he or she loves. Discover what your child’s passionate about, and look for groups, camps, or teams surrounding that passion.

World of Choices

Some children like to be given choices and respond well to responsibilities. What you can do is create ways to give your child more to do so that you kid’s self-esteem can improve. Think about letting your child do little things, like choosing his or her own food at restaurants to big things like planning a whole day. Responsibility helps build self-confidence.

Recognize an Issue

One of the most detrimental problems to a child’s self-esteem is external influences. External influences could include anything from a bully at school to more serious issues. You want to be aware of the signs of trouble like difficulty sleeping, attempting to skip school often, or unexplained bruises. Focus on supporting your child if he or she is ever bullied. Make sure your child accepts what happened so he or she can heal. If you suspect your child might be undergoing treatment more serious than bullying, you should reach out for legal help as soon as possible. It can often be difficult for children to discuss issues with their parents, so if you are having difficulty getting your child to talk about it with you, a counselor might also be a good idea.

Know How to Criticize

One thing some parents have trouble with is criticizing their children. The issue that parents usually have is they criticize the child instead of the problematic action. You want to make sure that you do not associate the child’s character with the action that got your kid in trouble. This might make your child feel like this kind of behavior is natural, which could lead to self-esteem issues in the long run.

You are not going to be a perfect parent, but you can strive to make good choices. Hopefully, these tips help you do just that. Remember, be open to suggestions because there are a lot of parents out there learning how to raise kids just like you.

Tim Esterdahl

Tim Esterdahl is the editor of IFCS blog. He is a married father of three and enjoys golf in his spare time.
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