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Set Your Loved One Free: 4 Steps to Take after a Family Member Is Incarcerated

Being arrested and going to prison can be a very scary and stressful situation. If you have a loved one that has been arrested and is facing potential jail time, finding ways to help them as much as possible would be very beneficial. There are four things that you should do if your loved one is arrested, which could prove to be very helpful.


The first thing that you need to do when you have a loved one that is arrested is to hire an attorney. While you can receive a court-appointed attorney, it is often a better idea to hire one from outside of the public court system. Ideally, you should look for someone that is experienced with your type of case and has relationships with the local prosecutors. This could help you to negotiate a plea and avoid harsher penalties.

Bail Bonds

When you have a loved one that is arrested, another important thing you need to do is get a bail bond through a company like Rader Bonding Co. If bail is approved, you may be able to get your loved one out of jail until their trial and judgment. Unfortunately, posting bail can be expensive so taking out a bail bond could be a great option as it will provide your loved one with freedom and relief for a period of time.

Get Affairs in Order

If your loved one is arrested and it appears that jail time is inevitable, it would be very helpful to assist them in getting their affairs in order. Prior going to jail, you should help them organize their finances, sell assets that have value, file and necessary paperwork, and be as organized as possible. You should also establish a system to help you continue to look over their affairs while they are in prison.


Most importantly, when your loved one is incarcerated, you should make many different efforts to visit them as much as possible. Seeing a loved one behind bars can be a very difficult thing to see. However, they will want to be able to see you and talk to you as much as possible. This will make it much easier on them as they will be able to feel as if they are still connected to you in the future.

Once your loved one is in jail, it is also important to think of how you can help them after their sentence. This will help to ensure they have a safe environment after leaving and can live a good life.

Tim Esterdahl

Tim Esterdahl is the editor of IFCS blog. He is a married father of three and enjoys golf in his spare time.
Tim Esterdahl

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