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Teenage Behavior—4 Fun Ways to Connect with Your Child

Even the closest families tend to drift apart, as children get into their teenage years. While nothing can be done to prevent this, there are things parents can do to reconnect with their growing children. Here are some fun ways to get to know your teenager all over again.

Share an Interest

As children reach their teenage years, they develop their own sense of identity, spending more and more time away from home. Yes, this may mean you will have to accommodate their schedule in making plans for the family, but, if you make it fun, they may look for ways to free up more time for the family. Start out by selecting family activities you know your teenager still enjoys. If you make the experience fun for them and enjoy it yourself, it will become easier to schedule time with your son or daughter.

Learn New Skills Together

Select something that will appeal to your interests and your teen’s interests. Perhaps learning about social media marketing or another skill related to computers that will be especially interesting to your teenager. When your child is nearing the age of 16, you can also teach them how to drive. Some companies, such as Young Automotive Group, know that this is a particularly good opportunity to put trust in your teen and to teach them new skills. As you both learn more about whatever topic you choose, you will find that you’re bonding through the experience. You’ll grow closer, create new memories, and come away with a new skill set.

Initiate a Family Night

It’s an old tradition with many families and for good reason. Instituting a family night ensures that everyone remains close and reconnects at least once per week. It’s a good idea to schedule the family get together for a night that won’t conflict with anyone’s schedule and make sure it’s fun, so your teens won’t start to view it as a chore.

Accept Their Friends

Another good way to reconnect with your teens is by allowing them to have their friends over. Let them know it’s okay for friends to come over after school, on weekends, and for sleepovers. You’ll spend more time with your own child and you’ll learn more about their circle of friends. In addition to being the “cool parent,” you’ll also be able to more subtly monitor your child’s friendships.

These are just a few of the ways parents can connect with their teenage children. We all know that the teen years include a rebellious streak for most children, but that doesn’t mean they don’t still love their families. By opening up to your teens and including them in fun activities, you can keep the lines of communication open and help them understand you’ll always be there for them.

Tim Esterdahl

Tim Esterdahl is the editor of IFCS blog. He is a married father of three and enjoys golf in his spare time.
Tim Esterdahl

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